I was walking in the park…
Looking around myself…
I noticed people arguing, people scoffing, people critiquing…
Then I thought that it is easier to destroy than to build…
…it is easier to critique, than to act…
…it is easier to argue, than to contemplate and explain…
…it is easier to mock others, than leave your ego and dare to try.
I thought that building, acting ,explaining, trying and being somebody is way harder, because it takes time, effort, strong will to endure, a goal, a vision, a plan…
And scoffing, critiquing, being mean, being harsh is easy. You just need to be bored to death with your own life and keeping yourself busy with other people’s lives.
What’s wrong with you people?
Why is it easier to hate, than to love?
Why is it easier to mock, than to encourage?
Why is it easier to critique, than to help?
If you think that spreading negativity and darkness upon others, is gonna take the boredom and aimlessness out of your life, you are deadly wrong!
When you make fun of the person that gives his best to do something, to be somebody, you are actually making yourself ridicule!
When you hate others for doing something and achieving something, you are actually throwing more hate on yourself!
When you critique others for making mistakes while they move forward, you are actually hurting not them, but yourself!
Nowadays the world is full of bullshitters and fake people!
People who claim they are your friends, people who claim they are happy for you and they want to help you succeed.
But in reality they are pure liars.
Liars because a friend never enjoys your failures… a friend never adds more negativity and darkness to your hardest moments, a friend never discourages you in moments of despair and never kicks your dreams further, when they are already slipping away!
A friend, a teacher, a wanna be, a hater, whatever you are remember, that negativity breeds negativity!
Learn to teach, to help, to correct others without vengeance.
People we learn the most from, aren’t those that will throw hate, offending words, jealousy and detest on us.
People we learn the most from are those that point our mistakes, but in the same time give us more hope, empower our will, provide more determination, motivation and inspiration.
People that show our mistakes, but yet help us find a way to correct them.
People that remind us our failures, but not with the intention to mock us, hurt us or breaks us, but with the intention to provide us with strength and understanding!
People that make us believe in ourselves, believe that we can be whatever we want to become!
People that never put limits on our abilities, and never determine our faith by the present moment!
Remember that you might constantly critique and mock others, but no matter how you see things those that fail, those that make mistakes, those that dare to seem stupid, are so much more than you are, because they TRY!
And what about you? Are you taking the easy way- critiquing others, or are you walking the longer path- trying,acting,learning,risking to fail?
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